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Hannukah, 2002

by Rev. Elizabeth A. Lerner
Service at UUCSS on December 8, 2002

There are lots of messages and depth in the Hannukah story, which means it’s not just a story, or holiday, for kids. Last year I spoke about zealotry, how it was in the people in the Hannukah story just as it is in us and what do we do with that, with both the courage and cruelty that zeal can yield? This year what speaks to me is how much it is a story of challenge of multiculturalism—about which we’ve already spoken a lot this year. Hannukah reminds us, among other things, how perennial and deep a challenge cultural differences and encounters are, for everyone. Maccabees, which we heard earlier, reminds us how much, on the other hand, we irresistably do influence each other and are influenced by each other—it purports to document the successful resistance of Hellenization by the Jews, but reads like a Greek philosophical treatise!

I want to tell you about my most personal multicultural challenge that has come out of the combination of Judaism and Unitarian Universalism in my own life, because to my surprise, even the painful aspects have helped me in the end.

Some of you have heard me mention an essay about Jew-U’s, Jewish UU’s, and me in particular as a representative. “The Problem with Salad Bowl Religion” is the title of an opinion essay by Prof. Jon Levenson, a teacher of mine at Harvard Divinity School, which appeared a few years ago in First Things, a conservative academic theological journal. In it, Levenson begins by quoting anonymously a young Unitarian-Universalist minister whose sermon was excerpted in the Burning Bush, the newsletter of the UUJA (Unitarian-Universalists for Jewish Awareness) and then excerpted again from the Burning Bush for a story in the New York Jewish newspaper the Jewish Daily Forward on Unitarian-Universalism. As an enthusiastic former student of Prof. Levenson’s and a continuing admirer of his work and teaching, I wish I had known that his essay would be appearing, because I was that young Unitarian-Universalist minister he was citing when I naively wrote: I wonder what my rebbe ancestors would think of me now, a woman religious leader, a minister, a UU… you get the picture. Would they be glad, proud, shocked at me and what I am?

Levenson used that sentence, which also opened the Jewish Daily Forward article, as the crux of his response. And some of it was painful. He wrote: “I know what her rebbe ancestors would think, they would be repelled and appalled.” Well, that part was tough, but in the end helpful in that it pushed me to make my own peace, supposing that he is right—and I’m not asking for comfort in telling you about this now—because that was an important part of my spiritual journey and I’m really fine with it—if they were appalled, I’d be glad to argue it with them. But his larger essay was of course about Unitarian-Universalism itself, and I found his critique insightful, challenging, and provocative. I wrote a response that was published in another journal, and I want to share some of it with you today, because this is a time of year when our own sometimes nebulous faith is highlighted by the range of celebrations we hold among us—solstice, Hannukah, Christmas, Kwanzaa… and when renewing our own sense of identity, neither derived from nor in opposition to these holidays and themes they lift up, we are inextricably linked to them and yet apart, reviewing all this is important. So this is my theme this morning, with perhaps extra attention to Judaism since this is our Hannukah service and this is a response to my Judaism professor’s viewpoint.

So—to the essay. Early on, Prof. Levenson reviews some usual defenses of “salad bowl” or “syncretistic” religion. He cites the values of open-mindedness, inclusiveness and free thought, the high percentage of Jews who participate in Unitarian-Universalism (8 or 9 %) thus potentially justifying the addition of (in his example) Jewish traditions to activities and holidays, the timeless tendency of ritual and tradition to permeate and influence from one religion and culture to another. He discusses the attractiveness of a faith community whose worldview requires no one to renounce their past in order to find affirmation, and the attraction of this for mixed marriages, which halakhic Judaism condemns. He mentions post-modernist mindsets, which with their deconstructivist understanding of the world, challenge the often singular authority and identity of traditional religions.

His critique of such defenses of Unitarian-Universalism occurs on many levels. In terms of mixed marriages, Prof. Levenson considers “by far the easiest resolution...the additive one—to include elements of both traditions giving little or no thought to how they fit together to form any sort of integrated structure.” Let’s think about that. I agree with him in so far as he articulates a challenge to which Unitarian-Universalism has so far risen only weakly, sporadically and congregationally, rather than denominationally. Indeed I believe the greatest challenge facing Unitarian-Universalism today, and the one we must heed to ensure the future of our faith, is how to address our religious and cultural diversity more deeply.

Being myself half-Jewish, close with the Jewish side of my family, fairly well-educated in Hellenistic and modern Judaism, observant of the holidays, and possessing a smattering of Hebrew, I have heard too many stories like the one about the UU church’s Yom Kippur potluck (Yom Kippur being a Jewish holiday observed fasting and attendance at synagogue), or the doughnut holes brought to a UU congregation’s Passover seder (always marked by the consumption of unleavened bread, usually ‘matzoh’) or the minister’s December sermon which left the congregation feeling that essentially Hannukah, Kwanzaa, Christmas and the solstice are all about the same things: freedom, hope, light in darkness and faith in the face of adversity. Presenting these holidays so superficially as to suggest that they are essentially the same in theme and import keeps us from struggling with all their distinctions and fundamental differences, ultimately keeping us from truly understanding and dealing with the stories of our heritages: Hannukah is not only about lighted menorahs and the rededication of the Jerusalem temple, it is not about a miraculous candle, and it is certainly not about a struggle for religious freedom. The Hannukah story is complicated and challenging because it is founded on a legend about Jews (the Maccabees) who were zealots as well as heroes, killing not only their persecutors but also other Jews who were not courageous enough to die for their faith, brave warriors who imposed their faith on many when they won dominion over Judea.

When it comes to Judaism I know enough, identify enough and care enough to be able to engage with all of you in worship, events and discussions that I believe are not just additive solutions with “little or no thought” involved. And I know a number of ministers who put a lot of thought and research into the work they do with the world’s religions. But no minister can know every background, every religion, every heritage, deeply and with personal authenticity. And when it comes to Kwanzaa, or just this path month’s Ramadan, I know I know there are many stones I am leaving unturned. Prof. Levenson’s point about our easy solutions must be well-taken.

This is this is the kind of burden some interfaith folks are carrying when they find Unitarian Universalism. When we, as a faith movement, settle for feel-good interpretations of religious history and scripture, or refrain from working in a deep way and on a denominational level to wrestle with the questions and challenges which do not cease in an interfaith family, couple or individual, the ministers and lay leaders of Unitarian-Universalism are failing many of our members. Either we are abandoning them to flounder in a morass of conflicts and misinformation, or we are healing them lightly with superficial treatments and lofty phrases leaving the dark and difficult issues of families, theologies, and traditions untreated by the individuals and communities which are called and expected to resolve them.

My disagreement with Prof. Levenson arose around some of his opinions where they were not so much critiques of particular instances or tendencies as assumptions about the nature of liberal, pluralistic religion as represented by Unitarian-Universalism. His argument was built on these suppositions:

1) his aforementioned description of the “additive solution” of pluralism as easy and ill-considered;

2) that in contrast to halakhic Judaism, the ruling ideology behind what Prof. Levenson terms “hyphenated religion” is merely personal preference, obedience to nothing larger than “self-expression, aesthetic pleasure, familial nostalgia, ethnic identification, whatever;”

3) that this results in the semblance of observance paired with a denial of (ie. Sinai’s) covenantal claims, mistaking “the appearance of a religious act for the act itself.” Prof. Levenson ends his opinion with some pointed questions regarding religious practices: “in what structure of authority have they become embedded, and in the service of what affirmation do they now stand? And will that authority still be obeyed and will that affirmation still be made when the price of doing so is inconvenience, monetary loss, personal anguish, persecution or martyrdom?” He answers them himself with his conclusion; “Hyphenated obedience is no obedience at all.”

There are many Unitarian-Universalists whose turn to pluralistic, liberal religion was neither easy nor ill-considered. Often such a break with one’s heritage strains or destroys family relationships. People struggle, sometimes for decades, before they come to such decisions. And even interfaith individuals, couples or families find that the challenges of such a life are ongoing and change over time, requiring tremendous energy, time, honesty and study in order to integrate differences. To be sure, not everyone gives religion, liberal or otherwise, such consideration and priority. Just as there are shallow Jews and Hindus, clinging to the superficial elements of the faith, there are shallow UU’s rejoicing in their newfound religious freedom only, and not the responsibility. But I am talking about our faith as we are called to live it, not as some live it. For Unitarian-Universalists who do put in the energy, time, honesty and study, to integrate differing religious backgrounds, to living their faith, to examining their lives and understandings for new elements and the revelation that we affirm is ongoing, it may be deeply satisfying and worthwhile, but it is not easy.

A common critique of Unitarian-Universalism is that it answers to no higher authority than the self. But this can be a superficial criticism. Modern Unitarianism and Universalism, drawing on roots in transcendentalism and earlier movements, grew out of the shaping of theologians like the 19th century’s Ralph Waldo Emerson and in the 20th century, James Luther Adams. Emerson’s heretical injunction delivered in his Divinity School Address: “Obey thyself.” reads like theological narcissism unless one believes, as Emerson preached, that God, the divine, shows in the self, fortifies the self, admonishes and illuminates the self, which would otherwise be meaningless, so blind to goodness, virtue or the sacred as to have no justification for upholding and obeying commandments from deep within. As for the affirmation to which Unitarian-Universalists give service, the best of these is laid out by James Luther Adam’s Five Smooth Stones of Liberalism:

  1. Revelation is continuous.
  2. All relations between persons ought ideally to rest on mutual, free consent and not on coercion.
  3. There is a moral obligation to direct one’s effort toward the establishment of a just and loving community.
  4. The form of virtue is not immaculate, rather it requires social incarnation.
  5. Resources, divine and human, are available for the achievement of meaningful change, justifying an attitude of ultimate optimism.

I know an orthodox Jew who left Judaism, because he no longer believed. This caused a long estrangement, and permanent condemnation on the part of his family, even unto death. If he had stayed, believing nothing of orthodox Judaism’s truths, daily a hypocrite, then indeed he would have been entrenched in the “mere semblance of a Jewish observance without sustenance from the deepest sources of Judaism.” But he left, intermarried with a lapsed Catholic, and they joined the Unitarian-Universalist denomination, which they perceived as a pluralistic faith which in its very syncretism, its conflict, its attempt at religious even-handedness, and in its failures, was ultimately truer to their understanding of the world, people, culture and God than Judaism or Catholicism. In doing this, yes, both were ultimately obedient to a morality and authority which stood at odds with the religions in which they were raised. But this should not be confused with obeying no structure of authority, recognizing no affirmation to serve, and certainly not with thus ducking inconvenience, monetary loss, personal anguish, persecution or martyrdom. Our own liberal religion has its martyrs and persecuted too, from Michael Servetus many hundreds of years ago, dying at the stake with his heresy “On The Errors of the Trinity” strapped to his thigh, to Joseph Priestly, the discoverer of oxygen, whose home and laboratory were torched by a mob angry at his Unitarian religion so that he fled, in fear for his life, to America, to the Unitarian-Universalist killed a few years ago in Florida while serving as an escort at a women’s pregnancy and abortion clinic, or my own former parishioner who was shot by John Salvi at the Brookline Ma. Planned Parenthood clinic where she worked because of what she believed.

Ultimately, much as I respect and am influenced by his teaching and insights, Prof. Levenson’s and my theological differences are irreconcilable, because his are those of an absolutist, and mine are not. As he joked more than once in class, “Relativism may work for you, but it doesn’t work for me.” And perhaps any pluralistic solution to religion’s diverse truths and texts may seem to some superficial or self-concerned. But I trust that in Prof. Levenson’s recognition of the belief that most religions have in their own validity, he would at least believe me when I witness as a minister to tears shed, lives and families wrenched apart, shots fired, courage lived, on account of people choosing to live and work according to Unitarian-Universalism’s unequivocal commitment to the inherent worth and dignity of every person, to justice for all, to acceptance, to searching, to democracy. When I look out at you, in all your multiplicity and unity, gay and straight, female and male, white and brown, hearing and deaf, Jewish and Christian and humanist and pagan, individuals and families, linked across every identification of gender, sexual orientation, race, culture and religious heritage, everyone here because we believe we belong and we want to be here, together, with each other, learning from each other, I am proud of you and your openness and love for each other, and I am proud to be your minister.

Happy Hannukah. Amen.